S-E-X is almost always a taboo topic of discussion, especially among neurotypicals and “civilized society”. For those of us who are neurodivergent and already struggle with the subtleties of social scripts, the topic of intimacy can feel more taboo. Join us as we discuss the intricacies, oddities, and awkwardness of being neurodivergent in the bedroom, and help us answer the age-old question: “Is it just me, or…..?”

Like many other things in life, neurodivergence is a bit of a double-edged sword. Some of our neurodivergent traits are so impressive that they almost seem like superpowers, while others impair our ability to function so much that they can feel like a curse. Join us as we explore the duality of our neurodivergence, discussing our perceptions of both our best traits and our biggest challenges through the lens of autism and ADHD.

Increasingly more of us are being diagnosed with some form of neurodivergence and/or are accidentally stumbling upon an unexpected sense of kinship among neurodivergent communities on social media. As our knowledge expands, both clinically and culturally, our vocabulary around neurodivergence is also evolving at a rapid rate. Join us as we discuss the definitions and origins of some of these terms and explore what they actually look like as part of the lived experience for neurodivergent people.

We have our tried-and-true coping skills but let’s face it, sometimes you just need a little something extra to get you through the storm; so we did a little internet search to see if there were any suggestions that maybe we hadn’t thought of before. Join us as we put these suggestions to the test and discuss our views on their efficacy and shortcomings as two neurodivergent women in search of some heavy duty stress busters.

Many neurodivergents learn early on that they have to slip on a persona and play by certain rules, and over time it can become difficult to know where the mask ends and you begin. We want to show you our strange, little neurodivergent selves, as unmasked and unfiltered as possible; so we’ve compiled clips with our more candid moments that never made it into the episodes.

Happy Valentine’s Day! To be honest, we don’t really celebrate it much. Also, des anyone else think it’s strange to romanticize an internal organ, especially since a “heart” looks nothing like the one in your body and it’s not even the organ responsible for creating all those lovey-dovey feelings anyway? Join us for some story time and an exploration into some of the ways that neurodivergence can make dating an interesting and challenging endeavor.

We’d like to believe that all trauma and abuse survivors are purely sympathetic characters who would never inflict the kind of pain they’ve been through on another person, but the reality is usually much messier than that. Join us as we share some of our own experiences on this topic, and discuss how you can make peace with the past, make amends with those you’ve hurt, and change your perspectives and behavior to ensure a better future for yourself and your relationships.

If you’re a neurodivergent person, chances are you’re used to feeling out of step with the rest of the world. But what if we’re not actually the problem? It’s entirely possible that we’ve been gaslit our whole lives into believing things about ourselves that are egregiously untrue or misrepresented and then pressured into fixing things about ourselves that were never broken to begin with.

Happy New Year! 2023 was a wild year, and by that we mean it was a feral beast. Because of everything we’ve been through recently, those New Years resolutions feel even more meaningful than usual. It’s time for some real, lasting and positive changes, but what does that look like and how do we get there without just losing heart or motivation by the end of January?

How’s everyone doing out there? If the answer is “Not so great” we feel you. If you’re struggling with your mental health or your relationships this year then how much forced “holly jolly” can you take? Now, don’t get us wrong. We do wish you a merry Christmas and a happy New Year, but we also understand if that feels like a tall order, so we’ve put together a list of mostly offbeat Christmas movie and song recommendations to help you survive the rest of this holiday season.

Santa always comes bearing a loaded mixed bag of both good and bad, making it easy to get overwhelmed and forget the reason for the season. No, we’re not going to say Jesus because we believe that the holiday season is not one-size-fits-all, and that everyone should have a chance to enjoy it on their terms and for their own reasons. Join us as we explore a plethora of possible reasons that might help you find your holiday spirit.

Over the river and through the woods, to our traumatic holiday memories we go. Buckle up folks, it’s gonna be a bumpy ride! We may not be able to pick our families, but we can choose whether we laugh or cry at the madness and chaos they bring to us. Allow us to regale you with some insane tales that may feel very familiar and relatable to those of you who grew up in dangerously dysfunctional homes. (Make sure to read the TRIGGER WARNINGS before listening to the episode in case you want to sit this one out)

Family is hard. Holidays are stressful. But if you’re dealing with your own family at least you know what to expect. However, what if you’re meeting your partner’s family for the first time instead? And what if they’re…. “normal”? If you’re stressed and struggling to figure out how to navigate this holiday season with the future in-laws we’ve put together a list of questions for you to consider and talk over with your partner so you can feel a little more prepared for whatever uncertainty comes your way.

Happy Halloween! Spooky season is upon us and we need your help to settle a dispute! So please, gather around the campfire with us while we dip our toes into the spooky realm to explore some classic urban legends and discuss whether these stories are worthy of passing along to scare yet another generation. How do you feel about urban legends or the genre of horror?

We’re taking a deep breath of crisp fall air, grabbing some warm apple cider, and sitting down to chat about the relief and child-like joy that this season can bring. Sure, there may be a lot of disparaging memes and mocking comments about the “basic white girl fall starter pack” but you know what we say? Screw ‘em. It feels like these days the moments of joy are few and far between and we’re not going to be ashamed of some moments of happiness and contentment.

Okay ya’ll, we’re doing something a little bit different this time. Let’s all allow our inner child to express themselves through a series of timed challenges that are as fun as they are fascinating. There will be lots of unmitigated joy, some internal battles of will, and some unexpected heartfelt moments; which is honestly exactly what a lot of us need right now.

It seems like everyone has an opinion about everything, whether those opinions are educated and well-informed or not. If you’re a trauma survivor you’ve probably heard them all, everything from victim-blaming to toxic positivity and everything in between. One thing is for sure though, there are some things we all wish we’d never have to hear again.

The pandemic, social unrest, political corruption, economic downturn, ongoing war, an uptick in natural disasters, and so on and so on. Nearly all of us are feeling the effects of this combined chaos in one way or another, so, what are we to do? Well, when truth becomes stranger than fiction it might actually be beneficial to explore what real-world survival skills fictional pop culture protagonists can teach us to help us survive the pre-apocalypse.

We all have moments that make us blush, put our foot in our mouth, embarrass the heck out of us, and make us want to run away. So join us as we take a gander at a random list from the internet of supposedly universal awkward moments, and listen along as we react to these scenarios and embarrass ourselves for your entertainment.

As a neurodivergent person, even if you’ve learned to mask really well chances are still good you’ve committed some social faux pas in your time. But let’s be honest here, a lot of neurotypical social scripts are arbitrary, poorly written, and they just don’t make much sense. Join us as we flip the script on neurotypicals for a change and call them out for all the ways in which they’re actually the weirdos here.